It seems to be a common theme for me lately to catch myself over-analyzing everything to do with adoption. When I don’t, and then see other adoptive parents upset about something, I ask myself, “Should I join in and be upset, too?” I wonder, “Am I missing something here?”
The word adopt seems to be a trigger for adoptive parents when used in situations other than the adoption of a child into a forever family. In this article, I address the reasons why we are not the only people who get to use this word. We did not coin the term. Just like many words in the English language, this one has many definitions. Click here to read the full story on adoption.com.
A question I often get asked or see online is: “How do I write a Dear Birth Mother Letter?” The simple answer is that everyone is different. There is no way of saying your letter is the perfect letter to be chosen by every expectant parent that reads it. Your letter, however, may be the perfect letter for that specific expectant parent that is looking for all the qualities YOU have. When this question gets asked on adoption forums, the language or term “Birth Mother” is usually the first to get addressed. Adoption language is important and raises the hairs of many people when the “wrong” terminology is used. Below you will find out why the use of “Birth Mother” is not preferred as well as many other helpful things that will guide you in writing your introduction letter.
How can you make sure you stand out from a crowd, be respectful and include all the key points you want to make? Click here to read the entire list of do’s and don’ts at adoption.com.